Want to help your nervous dog? Trainer shares one surprising tip that will be a game changer

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Does your dog feel nervous whenever there’s a visitor in your home? Do they hide in the corner or become reactive? If you answered yes, you’re not alone as this a problem that many owners face, but struggle to find a solution for.

If you’re wondering ‘How do I know if I have a scared dog? Our vet explains that you can tell by behavior changes, physical signs, and dog body language

It can be hard to see your fur baby frightened (especially when they’re usually so happy) and can take the enjoyment out of having family and friends over altogether. 

This is all about to change as Adam Spivey, founder of Southend Dog Training, has just shared his golden rule when it comes to having guests. It might surprise you, but follow his advice and your pooch will come out of their shell in no time.

Adam says the most powerful thing is when your guests pretend your dog does not exist. Whilst this might be a hard thing to ask of them (especially if they’re a dog lover), it will be worth it in the long run and will help them build more confidence. 

If people are invading your dog’s personal space, there’s a good chance your pup will become reactive as it makes them feel misunderstood. 

Although it might not feel natural to avoid them, and maybe even mean, it will actually empower your dog and help them if they tend to get scared. 

This also includes staring at them and holding out a hand to sniff. According to Adam, these are all off-limits too, so it’s worth politely letting your guests know beforehand so they’re all up to speed. 

It might be disappointing for guests who are desperate for a cuddle, but any good friend will be understanding of your dog’s needs.

For more advice like this, here are 5 mistakes I made with my reactive dog that you’ll want to avoid, and 8 reasons why your dog is anxious. Does your pup overreact to situations? Here’s how to calm a reactive dog

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Megan Milstead
Staff Writer

Megan is a Staff Writer on PetsRader, covering news, features and buying guides. She has a wealth of experience looking after animals, having grown up with dogs, cats and horses all of her life. She’s particularly interested in pet happiness and behavior, which she loves to research in her spare time. You’ll often find her watching webinars on reactivity in dogs or researching cat body language. She loves going the extra mile for her cats Chilli and Nala (who also help out with testing the best products for our buying guides).

Megan studied BA Journalism at the University of Westminster, where she specialized in lifestyle journalism and was editor of Smoke Radio’s online magazine. She also graduated from West Herts College with a Level 3 Extended Diploma in Journalism. Before joining the PetsRadar family last year, she worked on the editorial team at Harrods and has spent most of her career writing for specialized titles, like RunningShoesGuru, Licklist and Mr. After Party.

Megan works alongside qualified vets and accredited trainers to ensure you get the best advice possible. She is passionate about finding accurate and helpful answers to your pet-related questions.